Father's Day vs Mother's Day

Mother’s Day: Mom wants to be treated like a queen, get flowers, gifts, taken out to eat.

Father’s Day: Dad gets a BBQ, at his own house, he has to grill and give me his credit card so I can stop by Publix on the way over for the food.

Is this accurate in your family and are both Mom and Dad happy with their special days? If not, what would you change?